ASCOT-World
Matchmaker
Personal Ad
Michelle, SoCal, stroke survivor, 42, looking for...
I have been a member of many singles
groups. I have submitted my
profile and responded to ads.
I had been honest in my ad and responses
that I stated I am disabled. And it showed that my ad had been viewed many times but I never received
a single response. And for
all the ads I responded to, again, I was honest and stated "Your ad interested me so I'd like to be honest
in the beginning that I am disable,
please let me know if my response still interests you or not. I'd appreciate your
response."
But as soon as they saw that word
"disabled" I never heard from them again.
That went on
for the last few years. I was then introduced to a few disabled groups, it was mostly comments
and questions pertaining to
the disabled. They were very nice groups with several intelligent
and wonderful Moderators.
Then the subject of the devotees was brought up and many people corresponded
their opinion of devotees and that
wasn't a popular subject. But that got me to think of the stories that I had been told, so I started
to feel more and more like I'd
like to experience having a relationship with a devotee. I just feel that since devotees are willing to
accept our disabilities, that we
can also enjoy the advantage that while being with a devotee means that they can help to do some things that
we normally ask our attendants
to do.
Let me tell
you a bit about myself:
My name is Michelle. I am 42 years old. I am 5'9", thin. I am divorced. I
live in Northridge, just North of Los Angeles in The San Fernando Valley of
Southern California. I had a car accident in '81 that caused a stroke in
'86 leaving my entire left
side paralyzed confining me to a wheelchair. Going out on dates I don't feel the need to spend a lot of
money to have an enjoyable time
together. I think an enjoyable day would be where the guy picks me up in his car and we take a blanket, a
radio, some games (I.E. Backgammon)
and some bread. Then we can go to a park and feed the ducks with the bread we can tear up, then
go spread the blanket to sit
on while we talk while we play cards and listen to the radio. I like to listen to music. Depending on
my mood at the time determines the
kind of music I'll choose, but I hate Rap (to me that's noise). When I'm home I enjoy surfing the net,
exercising my limbs and reading.
It's nice to take walks, in my wheelchair, and breath in the fresh air while admiring the lovely
houses and creative landscaping.
I like to go out to see movies. I enjoy drama, crime, murder mysteries, love stories and comedies.
Type and qualities of a man, or
devotee, I am looking for:
He is between
42 - 48 years old, between 5'9" - 6'2", living in The San Fernando Valley of Southern
California, average weight, never married or divorced. Qualities: caring, masculine,
devoted, passionate, sincere, energetic,
protective, loving, funny, understanding, considerate, gentle, nurturing, intelligent, tolerant,
kind, loyal, affectionate, sensitive
and romantic.
Just someone who also knows that just the couple being together can be entertaining enough so money doesn't
have to be spent.
I have a photo of myself in my Yahoo profile and more photos of myself in my online inbox.
Any questions, comments or responses
please contact me.
Michelle
copyright ASCOT-World 2004, revised July
27, 2004